Friday, October 16, 2009

Friends

Their is no pettyness or mindgames in true friendship. There is no expectation of loyalty or any other kind of expectation. There is no question. There is harmony because you live according to the order of things, so you love and are a part of love at all times. Mind games are so predominant in friendships, especially in romantic relationships. There are so many ideas and expectations, and we find so many ways to manipulate people to conform to what we want. There is never any reason to fight or be angry with someone you know beyond the mind, because your friendship is not based off of thoughts or ideas, but a bond beyond words. The same bond that unites everything and creates everything interdependent. Even if you do get angry, you both know it is a passing unimportant thing, even if you don't say you know. It is not really real. A good way to judge if emotion is really real, is put your friend in front of a moving bus next time you are having an argument, and see whether the anger or the bus coming at them is more real. Then you will realize how petty it is. 
People get addicted to their emotions a lot and create drama just to feel more alive. They get so caught up in it that they don't realize it is just of their own creation. A dog does not create drama, it just loves for the sake of loving. But humans place conditions on their love, and play mind games with one another. We are deeply rooted in psychological issues, and it all stems from fear, but we have got to uproot it, lest we have shallow relationships. Right now their is no relating, only people creating what they want in other people. 

1 comment:

  1. I agree with what you say. We are so selfish in our relationships wether it be with our friends, lovers or family members. We just have so many expectations. It all really does come to this doesn't it. No matter how much we think we hate someone for wronging us could we imagine them in a coffin or burried in earth. I feel sympathy even for the lowest of people. It's the power of empathy I guess. Walking in someone elses shoes..

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